Last night, I had my usual email exchange with Lois (ok, I changed the name). She sounded really upset, upset with HIM.
So I called her. The short version is that something transpired between them, and she feels used and abused and violated and what's that she said... got short changed cos now it seems like there really wasn't any friendship or feeling behind whatever happened. Basically, she got played.
I feel sad for her. She seems to blame herself for what happened, and she seems to feel that somehow, I am disappointed by her. I'm not.
Lois... It's not your fault! Things happen. Shit happens. Live, and learn from it. Nobody's perfect, and well, nice as you are, neither are you. Please don't let this get to you. Heal, live, learn.
A quote from Kathy... If you play with snakes, learn to stay far away.
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