A game gone wrong

You know those games where someone asks you, if your mother and girlfriend were drowning, who would you save? Well, sometimes the game goes really wrong...

This was reported by USA Today:

Mahado Mohamed Musa was in her concrete-block home with her two children when she saw the wall of water hurtling out of the Indian Ocean toward the fishing town of Hafun.

She had a split second to make a decision she says she will regret for the rest of her life: Should she carry her son or her daughter to safety?

Musa tells her story quietly and with little emotion as she squats in the shade of her makeshift plywood shelter. Khadra, her 2-year-old daughter, clings to her side. "When I saw the water, I took this one," she says, looking at Khadra, "and left the other." Her son, Mohamud, was bigger and had hurt his foot. "He was limping. So it was easier to carry her. I just couldn't carry both."

With Khadra tucked under her arm, Musa, 20, raced to higher ground. She sent her brother-in-law back for her son. He found Mohamud, 6, floating in the water, barely alive. He died that evening.

"I regret that decision," Musa says simply.

Time is craaaawling

It's only 2.30pm. There's still 150 minutes till I get off work. I've had my long lunch. I've taken my mile-long after-lunch walk. I've read the news. Now, I'm simply vegetating here at work, listening to MP3s (thanks goodness for those) and watching the second hand sweep across the face of my watch.

I have no game! Pool, that is.

Went to shoot pool last night with Clara. I suck at pool. Fortunately, she was having a bad night (probably my influence ha ha ha) so she pretty much sucked too. Pity she didn't suck as badly as I did. The only times I won was when she scratched the 8 ball. Hey, whatever works right?

Best (worse?) case

Here's another thought...

If my I-485 falls through, I'll have to leave US for a year before reapplying for a H1-B (work visa). I've decided that I will use that one year properly.

I'll start with two or three months of vacation. I'll visit Ye Lin in Sri Lanka. I'll visit Roz in the UK. I'll visit Yee Jenn in Australia. I'll spend a month or so alternating between my parents in Malaysia and my friends in Singapore. And then, I'll try to find a job in either the UK or Australia, or in the worst case, Singapore. I figure that if I'm going to be away from US, I'd rather use the time to work somewhere where I won't normally get the chance (ie, not Singapore).

The more I think about it, the more a vacation sounds like a beautiful idea...

I-485 denied due to abandonment?

The issue:
I filed for an I-485 (Adjustment of Status) about 2 years ago. On Aug 12 2004, BCIS sent me a request for evidence of some sort, which I never got. In mid Nov, I happened to check my case status online and noticed that the case status said they had sent me something. I called the BCIS help desk and they said they did not know what kind of info the request was asking for (they didn't have access to such details) but they would re-send the request. On Dec 21 2004, I got a letter stating that my I-485 was denied due to a lack of response on my end.

It is possible that BCIS sent the request to an old address of mine. However, I have managed to receive other notices from them (eg my fingerprint notice and this letter of denial) just fine, which seems to indicate that they have a current address. Also, I have mail forwarding on all my previous addresses.

I have 30 days to appeal the decision, or else I'm out of the country. Great huh?

For now, my immediate future in the capable hands of Stacey Gartland from Van Der Hout, Brigagliano, & Nightingale LLP. Who knows where I'll be in 1 or 3 or 6 months?